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		<title>Time off</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I know that the last thing you want to do when writing a blog is take time off, but I need to spend some time refocusing my life, and the direction that it is going. I short I need some Me time. I will be back at it in the fall. I hope to see [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.danbyl.com/2010/08/06/time-off/</link>
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		<title>#156 But I am ready</title>
		<description><![CDATA[When the student is ready the teacher will appear. No wonder this is an ancient Chinese proverb, it has almost no relevance to today’s world. People are so concerned with living the dream that they completely forget about those of us that are trying to make something of our selves in this world. This may [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.danbyl.com/2010/07/27/156-but-i-am-ready/</link>
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		<title>#155 Fear</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Do I step out? Should I begin to lead? Will people accept me? What if I screw up? What if I don’t know what to do or say? Seth Godin says that this is my lizard brain acting up, I don’t really know what he is talking about but I do know it has a [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.danbyl.com/2010/07/25/fear-3/</link>
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		<title>#154 Stepping on a landmine</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I am not going to presume to know what it is like to step on a landmine, but I am sure that my wife feels like she is walking through a minefield some days. I am working at some mine removal in my life, it seems that one little step will leave someone having years [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.danbyl.com/2010/07/21/stepping-on-a-landmine/</link>
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		<title>#154 Be here not there…</title>
		<description><![CDATA[It’s hard to live in the moment; I so often find myself thinking about the future and living everyday for the day that I will get to… The problem with focusing on the future and beating our selves up for not being there already is that we miss the moments that we have right now. [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.danbyl.com/2010/07/19/be-here-not-there%e2%80%a6/</link>
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		<title>#153 Learning to many things at once.</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I don’t know if this is actually a problem but sometimes it feels like it is. When I take a step back from my life and try to look at the big picture I feel as though I am blindsided by a long list of things I am trying to do “better.” I am trying [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.danbyl.com/2010/07/17/learning-to-many-things-at-once/</link>
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		<title>#152 What is normal is not ok</title>
		<description><![CDATA[What is normal in the world is what is wrong with the world. What has become acceptable in our culture are the things that make it harder to stay pure of heart and mind, they are the things that make relationships so difficult, they are the ideas that are teaching kids to be the way [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.danbyl.com/2010/07/15/what-is-normal-is-not-ok/</link>
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		<title>#151 Mimic their behavior.</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Part two, this is one of the easiest ways to begin to learn what you need to do to care for your partner in the way he or she needs. This takes a lot of observation skills but with just a little practice anyone can get there. Look and see what your partner is doing [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.danbyl.com/2010/07/13/mimic-their-behavior/</link>
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		<title>#150 Love vs Respect</title>
		<description><![CDATA[If these two ever decided to duke it out, I am pretty sure respect would win, because frankly it is the manlier of the two. This is a concept that has required some discovery on my part. Men tend to respect their wives or significant others, while women are more prone to Love their partners. [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.danbyl.com/2010/07/11/love-vs-respect/</link>
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		<title>#149 Honestly…</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I don’t feel so inspired right now. But I think that being able to man up and not fake it, sometimes makes us more us better people then faking it till we’re making it. The challenge comes in knowing when to do one or the other. Email this post]]></description>
		<link>http://www.danbyl.com/2010/07/09/honestly%e2%80%a6/</link>
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